Hate Your Job? Break Out of the Breakfast Club

More than half of American workers hate their jobs, according to one study. And that may well be an underestimate, based on my own anecdotal observation any time I find myself on the train during morning rush hour. The misery hanging over those commuters is absolutely palpable. There are lots of theories for why people feel … Read more

Nobody Listens

People don’t listen. It’s true. Sometimes it’s obvious. Their gaze drifts or their eyes glaze over. Though that’s not even a reliable indicator, since apparently the kids these days are training themselves to maintain eye contact while texting. So unless you put them on the spot and quiz them on what you just said, you may never … Read more

(Don’t) Give the People What They Want

We’re all supposed to be keenly attuned to the needs and wants of our customers, viewers, listeners, readers, etc. So we ask them what they want, and we adjust our agenda, our content, our programming accordingly. But how do we know that they know what they want? On the webinar I did recently, I had the opportunity to ask participants what … Read more

5 Tips for Handling Rejection

The lessons we can learn from actors go way beyond how to communicate more successfully. The world of performance offers lots of important life lessons as well. Acting is about taking risks, making clear choices and doing ridiculously embarrassing things in public and living to tell about it. (A particular career lowlight of mine was … Read more

The Hokey Pokey as a Blueprint for Life

It didn’t matter who you were — Martin de Maat believed in you. Martin was a teacher and administrator at Second City. He died in 2001, about a year before I started taking classes there, but he left behind an indelible legacy. By all accounts, he was a one-of-a-kind figure — passionate, enthusiastic, inspirational. Martin put … Read more